Her daughter kept an abortion secret

I found out about the abortion by pure coincidence. I wasn't snooping around. I am saddened and hurt by the fact that my daughter didn't have the courage to tell me about it. Until now, I thought we were really close. My daughter knows she can come to me with all her problems. I am very understanding. Do you think I should confront her, or should I keep my mouth shut and pretend I don't know? Confused and Hurt in N.Y.C. Dear Confused: We don't think "confront" is the right attitude. An abortion is a serious decision, and we are sure it is one your daughter did not reach easily. It serves no purpose to be judgmental, upset or disappointed now. When you have a quiet moment with your daughter, tell her that you found out about the abortion, and ask if she wants to talk about it.

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